Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Merry Christmas!
Christmas Eve we went to Todd's parents and Polly Sue fed us a delicious steak dinner and we exchanged gifts and enjoyed the afternoon together. Christmas morning we had a ball watching the kids discover what Santa brought them. Valerie calls Santa Ho-Ho. Ho-Ho was very good to both her and Blaine! Then Larry and Polly Sue and all of my family came over to our house for breakfast. We all had a good visit, ate too much, and played with the kids' new toys. The whole crew went outside and watched Blaine shoot off his new Coke/Mentos geyser (Way Cool!). Then it was off to my parent's house to open presents and have our traditional Christmas fajitas. Mom and Dad make the best fajitas! We spent the rest of the day playing, resting and visiting with Ginger, Mike, and Bryan. The day after Christmas, Todd's cousins came into town so we went down to Nana and Bub's house and had another round of Christmas with Jami and Todd and their kids, Brooks and Paige, Jason and Jackie and their kids, Jaxon and Connor. Todd's Aunt Jan had cooked a brisket and so we had yet another wonderful feast. The next day Todd's cousin Cy, his wife Meredith and their pretty little Kylie came so we all got together again.
So much fun, too much food, not enough sleep! All of us were spoiled with so many great presents but the best gifts of course are the ones money can't buy. God has given us the gifts of love and family and best of all, our salvation, which is why we celebrate Christmas!
I have tons of great pictures that I am trying to post tonight but my pitiful dial-up connection is not cooperating. I'll try again tomorrow.
Thursday, October 23, 2008
A Whole Month in One Post!
- The last weekend of September the kids and I went with my parents to a Carrell family reunion in Huntington. It was a 10 hour car trip one way so pretty tiring. It had been 4 years since I'd been to a reunion so it was wonderful to catch up with all of my Dad's family again. I was also proud to show off Valerie! She and Blaine had a wonderful time. Blaine got to meet and play with his cousins and caught a crawdad at Uncle Earl's house! Valerie got tons of attention and everyone let her eat off their plates!
- We've been to several volleyball games to watch Shelbi play. She is a middle hitter and is awesome! The Lady Lobo team is great and it looks like they will be District Champs. Can't wait to watch some playoff action! Valerie claps her hands and says lolo (lobo) and ay (yay).
- We conferenced with Blaine's teacher and he is doing great in 1st Grade. He made all A's on his first report card! He is reading better all the time and is starting to take Accelerated Reader tests on the computer. In Blaine's words, "Mrs. Coldewey is cool!" She lets them do the smarty pants dance when they do something good. I've got to get some video of this!
- Valerie has started going to Children's Day Out and loves it! She cried the first couple of days, now she runs ahead of me to get to her classroom. She is SO social! CDO has had visits from the fire truck, police officers, and EMT's this month. Most kids were afraid of the loud sirens. Not Valerie, she danced to it!
- We celebrated my brother, Bryan's 33rd birthday on October 6 and Todd's 36th Birthday on October 20!
- Todd's Aunt Martha passed away at the end of September. We really miss her and pray for Bruce during this time. She loved Blaine so much and was already crazy about Valerie in this short time we've had her. Martha was a special lady!
- We have had Valerie for 4 1/2 months including our time with her in Khabarovsk. Since June 2, she has grown 4 inches and gained 5 pounds!
- We have met twice with the Early Childhood Intervention team. They assessed Valerie last Friday and she does qualify for services with them. She will get Speech Therapy twice a month. This therapy is really training for us to learn how to work with her to improve her speech, especially her articulation. She is consistently saying more than 50 words but she is very difficult to understand. She seems to understand most of what we say. She is a bright little girl and we are so proud of her!
- We had a ball at the Heflin's Annual Pumpkin Carving Party. We made a jack 0' lantern with TONS of teeth! Blaine is big enough now that he can help carve. Valerie enjoyed sticking her hands in the slimy seeds! It's so fun to line everyone's lighted pumpkins up outside and admire the creativity.
- Todd is going to be changing jobs and we are really praying for direction and guidance. He is a super smart guy and a very hard worker so I know everything will work out fine but I don't like times of unknown. However, I do know Who holds the future!
- Valerie and I went to the Sandhills for a playdate with another group of moms and kiddos from church. After she learned to not eat the sand, she had a great time and even went down the dunes on a disc.
- Blaine is going to be Batman for Halloween if he doesn't wear out his costume before then.
- I'm not sure what I've been doing this month but always seem to be busy and tired! I think it has something to do with the 2 year old.
- We are also following our football team who is having a great season. Blaine's teacher's son, Kevin is on the team so Blaine has a new hero to look up to. I love to go to the games but usually feel a little beat up after holding Valerie through the whole thing.
- My friend, Donna, gave me a gift certificate for a massage way back before we went to Russia but I never was able to use it. I finally got my massage last week and it was WONDERFUL! I could do that once a week!
- I finally got Blaine and Valerie in to get some pictures made. Valerie doesn't yet know how to pose. I would get her situated, tell her to smile pretty, and she would say, "no", get up and walk over to me. I think we got one good one of her when we made her laugh and several of the two of them together. She doesn't understand smile, but if I say "show me your teeth" we get a little fake smile. They should be in tomorrow.
Like I said, random and abridged. Almost all of those bullets should have been a post of their own, complete with pictures and this was just the things I remembered off the top of my head. Here's a vow to do better. Hopefully.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Russian Adoption Playdate
We worked so hard to get all the kiddos in one picture but it was like herding cats so here's a few different groups. I never got little Dimitry. He was way too fast!
Friday, September 5, 2008
First Day of First Grade!
Posing with Mrs. Coldewey on Day 1!
Monday, September 1, 2008
Splish, Splash, Dump!
Sunday, August 24, 2008
31 Words!
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Happy Birthday Valerie!
Monday, August 11, 2008
Fishing with Pa!
The weather was nice, hot but with a nice breeze. We fished hard and tried lots of different lures but didn't catch very many fish. I think it was just too hot. Valerie stayed happy as long as she was eating! Blaine continues to improve his casting. Pa is so patient with all of us, rigging up our poles, getting us free when we get hung up, and not getting upset over spills in his boat!
Pa actually hooked this little bass and told Blaine he needed some help reeling it in. I love the look on Blaine's face. So proud!
Pa let Blaine drive a couple of times and he had a ball. It made me a little nervous!
By Sunday afternoon, this was one tired little girl! She slept about 3 hours on the drive home.
I can't believe we've already been home for 6 weeks. Valerie will be 2 years old next Sunday!
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Certificate of Citizenship
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Valerie Has Been Showered (Spoiled)!
Look at my gorgeous friends! They are just as sweet as they are beautiful! They threw a shower for us at the church on Saturday and went all out to make it really special. The food, cake, decorations, invitations, eveything was so so nice. There was even a slide show playing with pictures of both of our trips to Russia! I am so blessed to have so many great people in my life!
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Something Pretty!
Monday, July 21, 2008
Nana and Bub's House
Nana and Bub's Porch
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Our Little Russian Cowgirl
Friday, July 11, 2008
First Fudgsicle!
Messier, But Happy!
Messiest!
Every day Valerie is experiencing new things! Things that we think of as ordinary or as simple pleasures are fascinating and delightful to her. It brings me so much joy to watch her face as she experiences eating fudgsicles, walking barefoot in grass, going swimming, holding a kitten, watching fireworks, playing in the sprinkler, and tasting a peach for the very first time! I love all these firsts and look forward to many more!
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Home Almost 2 Weeks
We really have had a great time with her since we've been home. She just has the happiest little personality! She smiles, laughs, dances, throws kisses - a real little charmer. I worried last week that we went too hard because we swam, went to parties, shopping, dinner with friends, had our annual 4th of July brunch, all kinds of stuff. But she just seemed to enjoy everything we did so much. We all had lots of fun but we ended up wiped out last Sunday, overslept and missed church, which is not something we ordinarily do. But things will slow down, most of our friends have met Valerie, and we'll get a little more scheduled for the rest of the summer.
How is Valerie doing?
- Eating - No problems, she has slowed down a bunch and will eat just about anything we put in front of her. My kind of girl!
- Sleeping - I lay her in her crib, she smiles at me, sticks her fingers in her mouth and falls asleep. That goes for nap and nighttime. She naps anywhere from 1 to 3 hours a day. She has slept through the night every night since we've been home. This is just unbelievable for me because I rocked and walked Blaine for hours every night until he was about 3 and he was not a napper. This is awesome! Woo-hoo!
- Attachment - I think Valerie is doing great in this area. She is definitely very social and not clingy but she makes sure she knows where I am all the time. She goes to other people but quickly reaches back for me. She is very affectionate and loves all the hugs and kisses. She has great eye contact. She is definitely a mama's girl but when I'm not around, she and Todd have some great times and are connecting very well. Blaine and Valerie wrestle and play like brothers and sisters do. I think the month in Russia we spent as a family was a wonderful thing for us in the area of attachment.
- Health - We went to the pediatrician today and got a great report on Valerie! She is a normal, healthy little girl. I already knew that but it was good to hear the doctor say it. She is in the 10th percentile for height, 5oth for weight, and 90th for head circumference. Surely all that will even out as she grows! Blaine had a big head too but it fits his body now. My mom always said it was all the brains in there! Blaine had a check up today also and is in the 90th percentile for both height and weight. He's 4 feet tall now and weighs 54 lbs! Valerie weighs 27 lbs and I can't remember exactly how tall she was. I'll have to look it up. She got 4 immunizations today. She had gotten many vaccinations in Russia but it was time for the next dose of some and she got the Varicella vaccine as they don't do that over there. As a matter of fact, chicken pox was going around the orphanage while we were there. We did get a referral today for an eye specialist because there were several notes in her medical about astigmatism and something else having to do with the eyes due to her being born premature. The doctor didn't see anything unusual but wants us to check it out just in case.
- Speech - Valerie has about 10 words that she says which I think is pretty good, considering she's only heard English for a little less than 6 weeks. She says Mama, Dada, Bubba, ball, night-night, bye-bye, hi, knock-knock, yum-yum (num-num), and the most frequent: no-no! She gets her little cell phone out and walks around the house saying no-no into it. She shakes her finger at you when she says it. I wonder where she got that? Pretty soon we are planning to contact our early intervention people here in Monahans and get her evaluated to see if speech therapy (or anything else they might recommend) would be helpful. I'm all about giving her every possible advantage to get caught up developmentally.
- Communication - Even though Valerie isn't speaking much English yet, she is understanding a lot of what we say and she figures out ways to let us know what she wants. Tonight I asked her if she was ready for her bath and she ran to the bathroom and started pulling off her clothes. She puts on her hat to tell us she wants to go outside. She tries to climb in her high chair when she wants to eat. She has the grunt and point down real well - Reminds me of how we acted while we were in Russia in the market. She flops in the floor and has a fit to let us know she doesn't appreciate us taking something away from her or making her come inside! She gets her point across well!
- Social - In a family of pretty quiet and reserved people, Valerie is our little social butterfly. She just really enjoys people, especially other children. She went up and touched and smiled at every kid who came in the doctor's office today! She waves at everyone we pass in the grocery store. She knows when she is being watched and is quite a little ham!
- Motor Skills - Valerie wasn't walking at 18 months on our first trip to Russia. This concerned us so we were relieved to see her come walking into the room on Trip 2. She still definitely toddles around and isn't very graceful but she is getting better every day. One thing that is both good and bad is that she is a little daredevil and not afraid to try new things! She is a climber, Lord help me. Her fine motor skills seem about average. She can feed herself pretty well, pushes buttons, manipulates small objects, etc.
We are all just in love with this little girl. I still look at her everyday and have to pinch myself to believe that she is finally here with us. She is an answered prayer and a dream come true!! I thank God for my wonderful family and know they are a gift from Him. I hated the wait we endured to get each of our children but oh how extra sweet it is now!
I got a new camera and will post pictures soon!
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Home Sweet Home
The trip home was, in a word, exhausting. The kids did pretty well but by the time we got to Dallas we were all SO tired. Of course, with the jet lag we were all wide awake sitting in Ginger's living room at 3 AM. Gin & Mike didn't get much sleep that night but it was so good to see them. Ginger had treats for the kids and Valerie took to her so quickly. Every kid should have an Aunt Ginger to spoil them! Valerie threw her biggest fit ever right before we got on the plane in Dallas. She flopped on the floor kicking and screaming and would not be consoled. Everyone at our gate got quiet and was staring. They had to be thinking, "Great, we have to get on the plane with them." I wanted to holler out that we just adopted her from Russia and she's been flying for the past 2 days and had no sleep and she's really a good sweet girl, she's just exhausted and scared....But I just smiled and picked her up and kept trying to calm her down. Much to our relief (and everyone else's) she didn't cry once on the plane. It was so good to have our parents pick us up at the airport. They looked great and were thrilled to see Blaine and meet their new granddaughter!
We have had a couple of family get togethers (with amazing food!), some friends have come by to visit, and we made it to church today. Valerie seems to love meeting new people. She is really outgoing and friendly. She was quite a ham at church today because she knew everyone was watching her. I took her to the nursery and worried it might remind her of the orphanage because it was a room full of little ones but she went right in and had a ball. She loved the slide and checked out all the toys. I stayed there with her the whole time but she didn't have much to do with me. However, if another kid came and sat in my lap she would push them out and climb in! She'd stay there about 30 seconds and then she was off to play again until the next kid came along to sit with me. It was cute and made me feel good about her attachment to me. I was glad she felt secure enough to wander off and play but didn't want to share her Mama with anyone else! I know it takes lots of time for the whole bonding and attachment thing to take place but I think we're doing really well. She makes great eye contact and loves to be snuggled and held.
Valerie is eating well, sleeping well, and seems to just be eating up all the attention she is getting. She loves to be outside and has been busy checking out every drawer, cabinet, light switch, etc. in the house. I am just sick because my camera got broken on the plane ride home. When we got to Atlanta, I told Todd to get out the camera and take a picture of our new little US citizen and the screen was cracked. I'm just thankful it happened on the way home and not the way to Russia. I'll be getting a new one this week because I'm missing pictures of a lot of "firsts" right now. I'll post some more pictures of our new little cutie as soon as I get another camera!
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Last Post From Russia!
Today was a successful day! We went to the US Embassy and had our interview and received Valerie's visa to enter the US. We also got a packet to give to immigration when we land in Atlanta where Valerie will officially become a US citizen! Then we went to the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and registered Valerie there. We are completely through with all the requirements here in Russia!!!
We will be picked up at 9:00 in the morning to go to the airport and our flight leaves at 12:55. We land in Atlanta at 4:30 and leave there for Dallas at 7:05. We land at DFW at 8:21 which will seem like 4:21 am to us since our bodies will still be on Moscow time. That is one long day! We'll spend the night with Ginger and Mike and fly home the next morning at 9:25. We are so close to being home! I dread the travel but can't wait to be home. Well, it's time to pack up the laptop! We'll update later on how things are going with our new family at home.
Monday, June 23, 2008
Moscow: An Amazing City
Blaine and Valerie in front of St. Basil's Cathedral. We toured the inside and it is just beautiful.
Lenin's Tomb
Sunday, June 22, 2008
The Comforts of a Home
Then we went out and found Todd and Angela's driver who took us to their beautiful home for the afternoon and dinner. That visit was like good medicine for all of us! We had the best time. Todd and Angela looked great, just like we remembered them. Their children, Maisy and Mason were precious. They were so grown up and so sweet the way they played with Blaine and Valerie. They even had gifts for our kids which was a real treat because all the toys we brought are getting very old. It was so comforting to be in a real home again for the first time in almost a month. The kids took advantage of the space to wander and play and Blaine even got to run around outside. The food was awesome, the conversation was wonderful, and it was just so good for all of us! They really blessed us by having us over and their great hospitality!
Yesterday morning Todd and Blaine enjoyed their outing. The couldn't get into Red Square at all because there was some kind of event going on to remember the WWII veterans but it was neat for them to get to see the ceremonies and demonstrations that were going on. They got some pictures from far away and we will all go back today. We have nothing to do adoption wise until Tuesday at 1:00 so today is just a free day for us. We slept well last night and are looking forward to a nice day and hopefully will have pictures for you tomorrow! Here's a happy pic of Valerie and Blaine from early on in the flight. I should have taken one at the end to have a before and after picture. They looked a little different! We'll be in the U.S.A. in 3 days and home in 4!
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Here She Is!
Happy times! This was the day we picked her up from the orphanage. She and Blaine hit it off immediately.
Our new family in front of the gold church in Khabarovsk.
Well, we made it to the Marriow Courtyard here in Moscow yesterday afternoon but it seemed like midnight to us because our bodies were still operating on Khabarovsk time which is 7 hours behind Moscow. Valerie did pretty well on the flight but it was still a tough day. She only slept for about an hour. I was wearing a black T-shirt that was new and it rubbed off on the sticky stuff all over Valerie's face and some ladies in front of us had given Valerie a red marker to color with and she had that all over her too. I used a lot of baby wipes but still she was quite a sight. She looked filthy. We all were actually. When we finally landed she wanted to run around the airport so I just let her while Todd was waiting on our bags. After our bad luck last time, I was so relieved to see our first suitcase pop out; however the relief was short lived. Everyone got their bags and left and we were missing 1 suitcase. We could see Andrei our driver and coordinator here in Moscow waiting outside for us. He came through the gates and we told him the problem. After lots of talking and pointing, here came our suitcase. We never knew what the problem was. Then we had another issue trying to get out of there. We handed the girl our boarding passes and some other papers we'd been given at the airport in Khab, but we didn't think they had given us any baggage claim checks. Lena had checked us in and handed us our stuff. Finally Todd opened up our packet of tickets and they had been stuck to the back of them. By this time, Andrei was obviously very put out with us. He grabbed our cart from Todd and took off. He raced through the airport and through all kinds of traffic and parking lots without ever looking back to see if we were following. Valerie was screaming and squirming while I was trying to run after him. We got in the car and took off. Todd tried asking Andrei a couple of questions as we drove through Moscow but his curt one-word answers made it clear he didn't want to talk. This guy is a pretty wild driver. I was feeling sick and I guess Valerie was too. She kept falling asleep and then waking up crying. We finally got to the Marriot and I thought I was gonna die as Todd kept trying to explain to the girl that no, he was not Nathan Hunt, he was Todd Hunt, just like it says on his passport. I was wearing this heavy backpack and holding Valerie thinking she looked awfully pale, praying that we would just hurry up and get a room. Then she began to make some strange noises and began throwing up all over the two of us! Poor thing! I know after all that she was thinking, "Just take me back."
We got up to our room, cleaned Valerie and I up and ordered some cheeseburgers from room service. We weren't up to going anywhere. We were starving and they were marvelous! Then Andrei came back with Catherine and her crew who's plane had been delayed. He sat down in our room with Todd to fill out our Embassy paperwork. Valerie was by the desk and he asked me to "move the child". As he was leaving he told us the doctor would come the next day but he didn't know when. I said that we had plans with friends (Todd and Angela Harris, who now live in Moscow) tomorrow night and it would be helpful to know when the doc was coming so we could plan around him. He rudely informed me that I needed to remember that we were here to complete an adoption. I was tired and cranky and was about ready to spit on him! We had brought a gift for him but he definitely won't be receiving it. After all, we're here to complete an adoption, not to be nice to people. This is the same guy who told us we would just have to do without our bags for the next 4 weeks when they didn't arrive last time we were in Moscow. Not my favorite person. Ok, ok, I got to rant and this probably won't seem like such a big deal later. We really do love our agency and all the employees we've dealt with except this one! He is correct about one thing, we are here to complete our adoption and as long as he gets that job done for us and gets us back to the airport in one piece, that is all that matters. But Dan Gibbs has a sign in his office that says, "Because Nice Matters" and I tend to agree. I guess us folks from west Texas just think differently about that!
As always, things looked brighter the next morning when we all woke up at 4 something. Literally, it was already light outside! Todd went to the fitness center and ran on the treadmill for a while. We showered and hung around the hotel until about 8, then we ventured out for breakfast. We found a neat little place and had some great fruit and pancakes and fresh squeezed apple juice that tasted just like you were eating a green apple, the way apple juice ought to taste, I guess. We were going to walk with Catherine's bunch to Red Square today but Valerie was getting deliriously tired so just Blaine and Todd went and I stayed here to let her have a nap. I bet we'll get another chance to go later on since our hotel is really close. The doctor comes today at 2:00 pm. Todd Harris is sending his driver for us at 3:00 and we are going to their home for the afternoon and for dinner. We are so looking forward to a home-cooked meal, some space for the kids to run, and a good visit with old friends from Monahans! It was so sweet of them to invite us. My Todd laughed and said who would have ever thought that a Grandfalls boy and an Imperial boy would be meeting up in Moscow!
We haven't really been told what we will need to do adoption-wise over the next couple of days. We fly out on Wednesday. We're in the home stretch!